I get this question all the time from people, “Amanda, how do you invest in yourself ie.. join a coaching program or get support when you do not have the money?” Today, I am going to give you my answer!
I have been faced with this decision many of times so I have tons of experience with this one.
Step 1: Desire! First off, you have to really DESIRE the transformation that the program will deliver. Meaning, if you can know, feel and believe with your entire being that if you show up and do the work you will achieve the results you desire then you obviously must go for it. You must take the leap. Make a list of 10 to 25 reasons why you want to do the program or receive the support.
Step 2: Next focus on what you will get out of the program if you do the program. Make a list of 25 inner and outer results you will receive if you show up and do the work.
The ego (edging GOD/GOOD out) is not your friend when you are faced with a chance to grow and expand. The EGO wants you to stay comfortable, small, safe and secure. You investing in yourself with your money, time and energy is threatening to the EGO because it’s very existence is threatened. It knows after your transformation, it will not be the same. It will do everything in it’s power to keep you safe, comfortable and small. I often wonder why we were created with an ego!?
Step 3: Make the decision from a place of “I know, like I know, like I know” that I am going to do this program no matter what. In this stage, you don’t have to know the HOW. What’s most important is that you know your why and that you OWN your desire. There is so much heart expansion and freedom in owning your desires. It can be scary and exciting at the same time to own your desires especially when the people you surround yourself with (family, friends and culture) are not taking leaps and owning their desires. If you want what you have never had before, you must leave the tribe at least for a little bit. After you receive your transformation, you will be called to lead and inspire your tribe.
Step 4: Now that you have decided with all of your heart and your soul that you will make the leap and in invest in yourself; it is now time to contemplate HOW you will get the money! Make a list of 20 plus ways in which you can get the money together. Stretch yourself to put every “crazy” idea on this paper. You have to know that the money is ALWAYS here for YOU even if you can not see it yet.
Money comes from SOURCE energy. Stay OPEN when heart storming your list.
Step 5: Take inspired action! Go through your list and take action on every item, even if it scares the heck out of you. I once asked my Dad (bless his heart) for $50,000 to invest in a coaching program, he flat out said “hell no, are you f’in crazy?” But out of that conversation, came great healing and transformation for our relationship.
I still owned my desire and made the decision to invest in the $50,000 coaching program even though I had NO IDEA how to get the money. And the money showed up for me within a few weeks! Out of owning my desire and making the decision, I got into my power and made the money myself while serving the most amazing clients ever! And I learned that making money is as easy as making a salad!
Step 6: Use an energizing mantra to reprogram your subconscious and to keep your frequency high. “I am so happy and grateful now that I am in this program”. Or “I see myself being coached by ___” or “Thank you for letting _____ be my mentor and teacher”.
Step 7: FEEL yourself receiving the support, the love, the teaching, the wisdom and the accountability in the program and being coached by the mentor you wish to work with. Close your eyes, engage all of your senses and put yourself in the program.
In summary, first you own your DESIRES, next you heart storm your WHY, then you DECIDE that you will do the program no matter what with a “My life depends on this program” kinda attitude once you have made the decision THEN you focus on the HOW you are going to make it happen.
We are limited by our imaginations and our false programming. Use your third eye to see the truth. You must open up to being loved, adored and cherished by the divine. Allow the miraculous in! Be vulnerable enough to receive your desires.
Ask the UNIVERSE for support. Then take massive inspired ACTION even if you are f’in scared until the money manifests. Often times, (almost 100% of the time) the manifestation doesn’t take root until the 11th hour but most people give up, lose focus and complain that “it’s not working”.
It is universal law, for every DEMAND there is a supply. “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” Have unwavering faith. BELIEVE! ACT! RECEIVE!
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